Ask Me How It Works
Love in an Open Marriage
May 2025 from Viking Books UK
Je mag mij alles vragen
Uitgeverij Nieuw Amsterdam
In the early hours of dawn in Amsterdam, Deepa Paul rises from her boyfriend’s bed.
She gets dressed, slips away with a kiss and cycles home, where she is welcomed into the arms of her husband, whose contentment is mellow alongside her own.
There isn’t a glimmer of shame, deception or guilt, only the honesty and compassion needed to make this kind of life possible — even if it wasn’t always this easy.
About Deepa
Born to Filipino and Indian parents in Manila, Deepa Paul lives in Amsterdam.
Ask Me How it Works: Love in an Open Marriage is her debut memoir.